Not been on for a while so got some catching up to do
but sorry to read this Rustic as I never knew you were suffering from the condition but credit to you for talking about it as cancers us males can suffer isn't really talked about, I had an op a few years ago & they put a catheter in oh god worst i'very experiencedo legs went to jelly every time I went for a pee due to the pain. My Grandad (mothers dad) had the condition & i'm sure he had an op years ago for it sadly it didn't work fully but he still made it to the grand old age of 92 & it wasn't the cancer that got him
my dad was diagnosed with it around 14 years ago luckily it was in the early stages & was treated with radiotherapy & hormones which sorted it out & he got the all clear but after that he arranged to go to hospital twice a year to have his bloods checked & there has been no sign of it returning. At 40 know in a few years will have to go & get myself checked out due to a family history of it on both sides.